Well, this is my very FIRST video and here I explain a little bit what’s covered in the program. Being my first video, I spent like DAYS getting all the equipment set up correctly and testing it out…
I was visiting Elvis Presley’s estate, Graceland in Memphis Tennessee, strolling through the gift shop when by pure chance on a television screen overhead, something truly amazing caught my eye.
This is what a “Natural” in action looks like. Watch the video and internalize.
Now, how do most guys act when talking to a girl?
They are not so much acting as they are REACTING.
They look for any excuse to eject from the set– the girls aren’t enthusiastic about his opening line, so he leaves the set.
The girls start to look bored so he leaves the set.
The girl doesn’t want to kiss him so he leaves the set.
Or most likely he just doesn’t approach at all, afraid of how the woman might react.
At any sign of trouble his game falls like a house of cards in the wind.
This kind of guy is living in REACTION.
He is reacting to everything the girl says or does, rather than just ignoring it and plowing through.
Maybe Mr. Reactive opens many girls in a night, but he’s not in any set very long because he bails so quickly. Maybe he feels good about opening, but in reality he was nowhere close to getting laid because he didn’t stick with the set and plow through to the end.
If you break like this, the woman will notice instantly that she controls your feelings and she will lose attraction for you.
If you stick things out however, the woman will eventually “flip”, open up, and suddenly show massive interest in you, once you’ve demonstrated she can’t affect you.
Women like persistence and like a guy who doesn’t care about what others think.
Sometimes a video can say much more than words however.
Notice Elvis, Mr. Natural here, and take some notes.
1. The fire of lust is burning inside him. The woman’s token resistance doesn’t affect his state or determination one bit.
2. He touches the girl. Her resistance doesn’t stop him.
3. He persists, relentlessly, shamelessly. He’s like the caveman who hits the woman over the head with his club and drags her back to his cave. He’s not concerned about her reaction.
4. He even gets her name wrong, but it doesn’t affect his state. He’s not concerned about saying ‘the right thing’.
5. His unbending, laser eye contact and ‘I don’t give a ****’ relaxed body language.
Myself behind the famous Christ statue that overlooks the city from atop the mountain
The ‘hidden’ city of Barra behind the mountain- many visitors to Rio come and go without awareness of its existence (stock photo)
Brazillian girls on the beach showing off for the camera
The mountains jutting up straight from the beach give Rio’s and many of Brazil’s beaches their unique character
I sold all of my possessions and visited Colombia, Peru, Brazil, and met some amazing Naturals with women along the way.
Next up I hit Rio de Janeiro and lived there for two months with some Portuguese under my belt.
Here the culture is most open to sex, dancing, and partying – the true Bacchanali.
And Rio is home to a culture of true Naturals.
There’s a whole subculture of guys who pride themselves on being able to pull girls home, even though they’re totally broke.
They’re not relying on routines or fancy cars or “image” to get these girls. They don’t have the money for any of that. Instead, all they have to go on is their natural masculine dominance and fun, carefree, party state.
The party is always on in Rio and I met some really cool people.
There is also a ‘hidden’ city behind the mountain, a 20 minute taxi ride away called ‘Barra de Tijuca’. It’s where the upper class live and reminded me of Miami. The prettiest beach is there and they have a large, modern shopping mall and their own club scene with a large Hard Rock Cafe- all excellent places to meet girls in the day and night.
If you stay in the city proper, Ipanema and Leblon are the safest and nicest neighborhoods to stay in (the rest of Rio is a little dangerous right now).
Here is where being more of a Natural really started to come together for me- going to an expat bar with lame openers such as “I’m tired” and getting great responses, having half the girls I talked to in a night opening ME, and so on (and yes, I’ve been able to reproduce the results HERE in the U.S., more on that in the weeks to come)
On the remote beach of Naufragados, Florianopolis.
Hiking through the Brazilian jungle.
Brazilian beauties from the Florianopolis club scene.
Posing with a Llama, Lima Peru
I hope you’re comfortably seated, because today I’m going to share with you an awesome secret.
After a quick stop in Lima Peru, I flew down to the large island of Florianopolis in Brazil and stayed there for six weeks.
Most likely you’ve never heard of it, and that’s because it’s the best kept secret of ALL of South America.
Having travelled all over the Americas, Florianopolis is the single BEST place to meet beautiful women in all of South America.
The upper class and wealthy from all over Brazil visit the paradise island of Florianopolis for vacation, so all the most beautiful women stream into this single place.
Large parts of the main city are cut off to cars and are open to pedestrians only, making it an ideal place to run daytime game. Most people take buses too, so it’s easy to meet women just going to and from places on the island.
Then there’s the beaches and spectacular surfing – miles and miles of beautiful beaches free from cars and development and home only to thousands of Brazilian women wearing bikinis. Don’t forget the dozens of bars and clubs all over the island.
Of course, if you don’t speak Portuguese, you’ll have a TOUGH time meeting women, particularly if you don’t already have your game dialed here in the U.S. or Europe. (That’s why I highly suggest you develop great game here FIRST, and then keep in mind Florianopolis as a travel destination).
There I met another Gringo expat named Jason who rented a house there in summers and was a true Natural in his own right.
He truly reflected a guy on permanent vacation – relaxed, happy, carefree, with nothing better to do than have fun and make girls feel of those great emotions too.
Like Manuel from Colombia, I noticed Jason’s core “strategy” was essentially similar – feel great emotions and the women will feel them too. And conversationally lead and physically dominate the interactions without caring how the women might react.
I also shared with Jason my Blissnosis program, and he gave me a lot of great ideas for improving it and encouraged me to develop it further. So over the next few months I began developing Blissnosis with the central idea of natural masculine dominance, which I really enjoyed doing.
After lots of partying, meeting girls, and just having a FUN time, my time was up in Florianopolis and took off for Rio de Janeiro.
Look for that story in my next email to you. In the meantime, feel free to leave a comment!
On a farm in the mountains, just outside of Medellin, Colombia.
This calf was being separated from its mother.
Upper crust Medellin women at Mango’s, where a table can
cost over $100- most Colombians earn about $300 a month.
Last time, I related to you how I sold all of my possessions (literally *everything*) and left the U.S. for a year. Well, I received numerous emails from you asking for details, so here goes.
My first destination was Colombia, which has a reputation for drugs, jungles, and random killings.
I stayed in the coastal city of Cartagena for a month, and I stayed in the city of Medellin (where Pablo Escobar grew up and was eventually killed in 1993) for three months.
Here’s what I discovered… what’s special about these cultures is that most people live on less than $300 per month and cannot rely on computer games or passive entertainment to keep entertained.
Most people don’t have cell phones plans that allow them to talk all day or internet access for chat.
Most people don’t have their own private rooms, but entire families of Aunts, Uncles, children, and grandparents will live in a single house.
The only things to do for entertainment are the good old basics - hang out with friends and have sex.
Being taught to be naturally “social” is just something automatic there.
Being taught to be happy without being a workaholic or expecting to be rich is the natural way there.
(I’m not saying that you should try to live on only $300 each month- but don’t wait for that next raise or promotion. The time to live life to the fullest is NOW)
I was fortunate enough to meet a Colombian guy Manuel who spoke English and he showed me the nightlife.
Manuel was a true Natural.
He didn’t know any routines or gimmicks. He didn’t have internet access or know anything about seduction tactics. And he didn’t have any money or a car or cool clothes - he only had enough money to catch a bus to the local bars and clubs.
Manuel had the ability to work an entire room just from vibing with a fun, cool energy and having women by the end of the night all up on him.
We had some good times together.
What I enjoyed was that it felt so DIFFERENT from what I was doing previously back in the U.S. - my routine game felt stilted and stiff and contrived in comparison.
I was able to formulate what he was doing into a new “formula” which I’m still working on right now-to become a true Natural and pick up truly quality and beautiful women by letting YOUR TRUE SELF shine through.
I’ll be sharing all of this with you soon.
In my next email, I want to tell you about Brazil and a secret island with beautiful girls I discovered.
As I mentioned in my last email, I sold away my apartment, sold away my car, gave away all of my physical possessions, and flew down to South America where I lived in cities like Rio de Janeiro in Brazil and Medellin in Colombia…
…for a full YEAR.
I got to live with people who had literally NOTHING, no cars, no computers, no ipods, only second-hand clothes and living in small shacks.
Yeah, it was a CRAZY year.
So why did I do this??
Well, I was teaching workshops and I got disillusioned with my whole concept of seduction at the time and what I was teaching.
Basically, I would go into a club and spit out a stack of canned routines and stories that I had made up.
I would use my most effective routines over and over and over again.
I felt like a skipping record with all the repetition and stopped feeling real or genuine.
I felt like women were responding to my routines and not to the real me.
I also felt like I had become a “response junkie” that was constantly looking for the routines to work, instead of just being a true natural about everything and not caring about what response I got.
Not only that, but I was teaching OTHER guys this method.
YES, what I was teaching WORKED. And it worked extremely WELL.
After some time I never felt that I was being the “genuine” me.
At one point I “cracked”… I just couldn’t bring myself to go out again.
Something was terribly wrong with the way I was playing game. Even though I was getting results, it was screwing with my head.
I’m sure some of you who have used routine-based game have experienced something similar.
I decided to sell my car and my apartment, spent two months intensely studying Spanish, and I bought a ticket down to Colombia. (All of my friends thought I’d get killed).
I didn’t though, and my trip brought me through Venezuela, Peru, Brazil, Panama, and Costa Rica.
Some cities I stayed only a few days, other cities I actually rented an apartment and LIVED there to fully immerse myself in the culture.
My goal was to get away from the material consumerism, material status scrambling, and rat race of the United States and live among people who had very little.
All they had was their families, their friends, and their relationships.
And I wanted to seek out true “naturals” from this culture (these parts) who had learned to pickup women purely through this culture where “being naturally social” was all you had.
I found them and I discovered some truly amazing things which I will be sharing with you (more on that later).
Have you ever taken a risky trip just to “get away” from everything? If you have, leave your comments and story.
Hey guys, here’s a little Freebie I found - Anne Hooper’s The Kama Sutra. It’s a free download for everyone at Bacchanali.com/Seduction Science, courtesy of Anne.
Right click on the link below and select “Save Target As…” or “Save Link As…” to save the book to your computer’s disk drive.
Spotted a golden tanned, blonde haired dude with tassled hair. Asked him straight up if he were a surfer dude who lived on the beach all day - turned out he did.
I must be psychic
Told me he was a professional windsurfer, and then he gave that up to become a professional surfer. He gave up all of his possessions to travel the world and do competitions.
Currently he was a little older and could no longer compete, so he became a diving instructor, but he still surfed EVERY DAY.
Here at least was a guy living on his own terms.
I did something last year; sold my car, sold my house, gave away all of my furniture and possessions (kept a few things and books in a small storage space) and I spent nearly ONE YEAR traveling all over South America.
I wanted to drop all of the accumulation of material goods.
And it felt great.
I’m back, but currently my car is a piece of junk and I’m renting a place prefurnished with very modest furniture.
It’s a relief not to be burdened down by possessions actually.
My identity is no longer tied to what outside material objects I have. I have a few pairs of nice clothes, and that’s it.
Are you daring enough to throw all of your crap away and live free, if only for 6 months as a new “skin” to try it out, like my new friend surfer dude?
This is Derek Vitalio and in case you’re wondering where I’ve been lately, I’m back from a year of traveling.
Last year I sold my apartment, sold my car, and gave away all of my possessions to charity.
Here’s why…
I was tired of the way I was running “game”, so I headed down to South America for a year to gain new perspective.
I went into the poorer neighborhoods and discover how true “naturals” operated with women (more on that soon).
Now that I’m back, I’ve decided to launch a new website and blog that reflects where I am today.
The new website is www.bacchanali.com
So what does “Bacchanali” mean? A bacchanalia is an Ancient Roman word for a festival of dancing, singing, and sexual revelry in the honor of the god Bacchus.
And that’s precisely what I want to bring you- how to have FUN and PARTY while you go out meeting women.
And you can expect to watch videos of me bringing new seduction and dating strategies.
That’s right, for the first time ever you’ll be able to see me on camera and in videos giving you free tips and answering your questions.
Leave me a comment about what you think! (Your opinions will help me steer this in the right direction)
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